Fooling Around with the Ladies (V1, E3)

Fellas... Here is the moment we've all been waiting for. Some insight for the guys or gals that try to figure out why some ladies have stopped talking to you out of nowhere OR just won't give you that chance you've been waiting for!

I've asked several ladies a big question: "Guys - and girls, sometimes do things that are annoying that will make us completely cut them off! So, with that being said, ladies, what are some turn offs about some guys or girls?!"

1. "A major turnoff about some guys is their need to aggressively invalidate what someone says or how someone else feels because they don't understand or can't relate. It stems from a lack of empathy, social awareness, and brain power." - Jasmine, 21

2. "Umm.. I would say when a guy says he likes a girl, but still flirts with every girl he sees. [And] Someone who is unloyal and untrustworthy." - Seleste, 22

3. "So major turn off is an ignorant person, someone who is closed minded, only sees things one way and who can't be receptive to change. Also, the obvious like, bad breath, poor grooming, and a bad attitude. He doesn't have to be super fly and sh*t, but practice food hygiene and take care of yourself. I hate n*ggas who don't go to the doctor and dentist regularly! Like uh uh, not kissing yuck mouth, and you not licking my kitty with that yuck mouth either." - Sandra, 36

4. "Some of my major turn offs for guys are when they are insensitive or just completely apathetic to everything, and guys who don't have good hygiene, and smell bad. I can't stand guys who don't treat my friends right either." - Kathryn, 19

5. "Turn off guys have is when they come up to you overly cocky, like it should be a pleasure that they even wanted to talk to you. And sometimes they act like they want to play hard to get, but it's like come on and just say you like me, cause we getting to old for that playing stuff." - Lia, 19

6. "No job. Dreams that ain't going nowhere. People that say they believe in God, but God ain't selfish. Point blank." - Latrice, 35

7. "I don't tolerate familiarity. I hate when entire strangers call me baby and similar. I block them straight away. Ever heard of respect?!" - Arina, 27

8. "Some things that would have me completely cut someone off is someone too distant or someone too clingy. I like to know someone is interested, and cares, but not someone who can't give me space to do my own thing. I will also cut someone off for taking too long to respond to a text, or repeatedly being too busy to spend time together." - Amberlyn, 20

9. "For guys, I'd have to say being like obnoxious or being a major f*ck boy who only brags about what he bags. Girls, however, the most annoying thing would have to be if they're overly clingy or if they try to dictate you and your personal life." Nae , 20

10. "My biggest turn off would be guys who have nothing to talk about except sex. It's just really annoying cause there's millions of topics to talk about and all you wanna know is what my mouth do." - Anonymous, 21

11. "One of my biggest turn offs is when a guy talks over the person he's speaking with (whether or not that person is me). Makes me think he's either self-centered or oblivious... neither trait being something I want to deal with. Oh! And a small, random, but serious turn off: chewed up or dirty fingernails. No lady wants her fellow caressing her with gross hands!" - Ruby, 26

12. "Horrible sense of humor. Arrogance. Misogynist. Short men. If you're under 5'11, then that's a no. Bad breath. Dirty fingernails." - Mamie, 24

13. "Turn offs about guys is just when they do too much or do too little and we still tryna figure out what a good middle ground is. Like, don't ask me everyday when we gonna chill. I'll be ready when I'm ready. But, then you go weeks without saying anything about chilling, like damn, wassup, what a girl gotta do? Then you got guys that wanna express how they feel 24/7. Like, can we please have a normal conversation without you being a heada** and then the n*ggas that claim they don't express their feelings and it's like pulling teeth. Like, c'mon now, who hurt you my dude?" - Yanni, 22

14. "For me, there are so many things a guy can do as a turn off. Once you make my eyebrows raise, your chances of being cut off are very high. Guys who don't have a good relationship with their mom is a definite turn off because it usually turns into them wanting all of my attention and becoming irksome on mother daughter days, their jealousy usually reigns supreme." - Loren, 25

15. "Like when they have a lot of of women. Like, 'I like you,' but yet they have a lot girls. And when they're cocky. And I'm a very spiritual person have a deep relationship with God, so if they're not spiritual, too." - Kike, 27

Now fellas, I'm kind of surprised that y'all think it's cool to stink and have bad breath. You can't pull up on a girl talking bout, "Heyyyyyy" and expect her to want you! Stay clean guys! Moral of the story: Shower with water and soap, stop lying about how many girls you're entertaining, find something new to talk about other than sex, and don't be ignorant!

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