Fooling Around with the Fellas (V1, E3)

Here's the tea on a certain question that a lot of females want the answer to!

"Sooo... Fellas, it's either you've cheated or know somebody that know somebody that knows somebody that cheated! So, the question is, why do SOME men cheat?!"

1. "It's simple; new p*ssy. We still love y'all though... (laughs) Well when I cheated it won't because I ain't love her, I just wanted something new and weren't willing to tell the girl that." - Q. Realigion, 20

2. "For real, for real, cheating 8 times out of 10 is just a n*gga not being able to turn down some p*ssy. 2 times out of 10, a n*gga just on't care to be loyal and looks for a girl to cheat with, but deada** most of the time it just fall in a n*gga lap and he can't say no. Or if his ex sex game was way better than his current girl sex game. N*ggas stay bussin down old hoes (laughs)" - EDES, 19

3. "Some guys cheat for a reason and some do it because they are enabled to." - Anonymous, 19

4. "Cause sometimes we gotta. Guys only cheat cause they want something from a girl the not getting... Lowkey if he cheat, he care about you." - Taylor, 21

5. "Cause all of the qualities that you want in a girl is not there or the sex is bad." - Dashawn, 19

6. "Well for the men that I know have cheated explain themselves for it by saying there wasn't any emotions involved with the person they cheated with. They felt as though that that justified the sex because they "love" they girl, but the person they cheated with was just a f*ck. There are also situations where they were in a bad relationship where nothing changed and they felt like someone better was showing them attention and affection. The male ego loves to be stroked and some don't realize how badly they have hurt their partner." - Se'kou, 21

7. "It's probably to subconsciously reestablish their masculinity after they feel they've already lost the power, influence, or trust in their current relationship. I feel women can speak heartless soul smashing words better than men. So, men turn off their heart and smash some other soul." Strat the Rapper, 22

8. "People cheat for a lot of different reasons. Sometimes, it's simple, like the home ain't happy, then you got the people with the insecurities that aren't over previous situations that can't commit, but don't want to be true to themselves. Social media be so tempting nowadays, people entertain followers all day that shoot their shot and you can't separate reality from internet. People ain't looking for love no more, they looking at you half naked and would say anything to hit. You rarely have your dogs, which every woman claims us guys are... Basically everything fu, you ain't supposed to f*ck to see if you like it. F*cking supposed to be something special between two people, but everybody slanging & all the hoes poppin." - Cellybthegreatest, 22

9. "Uhhh... A lot of dumb reasons. Mainly because the chase. Joker said something in The Dark Knight that basically explains (most) men. 'I'm like a dog chasing a car, I wouldn't know what to do with one if I caught it.' Now some men are perfectly fine with getting and holding on to their dream girl/guy. But, a lot of men don't really know what love is, it takes basically our whole life to figure it out." Akiel, 22

10. "I think when fellas cheat, it's because they're bored y'know. Their woman isn't keeping them satisfied or the n*gga just likes having sex with multiple women and I know some fellas want to be in an open relationship, too." - K.P., 21

11. "I know some people who have, I don't know why they do." - Anonymous, 23

12. "Men or I would cheat in an instance where I'm giving my all for my lil shawty, keeping it a bean, holding her down, and if any of that isn't returned that's when I play the game like Monopoly." - Brandon Johnson, 20

13. "That's an interesting question. I believe there are many reasons why a man would cheat. A man would cheat because he was never taught the value of a relationship or understands the value of the woman. He would cheat because he sees her as just an object of sex and not the individual with so much more to offer. A man would cheat if he is trying to live a lifestyle. Sometimes a man cheats because something is missing in the relationship. In conclusion, black men don't cheat. Boys do. These aren't men." - Justin, 20

14. "In a world full of natural wonders and phenomena, the woman especially the black woman, is the divine's most breathtaking work of art. The male ego has been conditioned to be that of conquest and greed so much that he often values his successes on attainability instead of sustainability, focused primarily on instant gratification. The male feels proud to have a collection of experiences with the best and most valuable beings the planet has to offer, for both internal and external display of "trophied" accomplishments, knowing that one day he will no longer be playing the game, and once "settled" he does not want to feel that he missed the opportunity to have the pleasure of such a variety of experiences with God's true gift to man. Most men feel like they are just getting it out of their system when they are younger, most older blame being creatures of habit for his repetitive infidelity." - LaMarcus, 25

15. "From my experience with friends of mine cheating, it's because they aren't satisfied in their relationship or they are too reckless about the situations they place themselves in." Vos, 22

16. "I believe the reason why some cheat is because they really don't know what the girl doing on her time. Trust have a big effect on it." - Kevin Whitfield, 19

17. "It's really simple. Dudes get comfortable and want something else or they're literally thinking with their d*ck and chase new p*ssy or the relationship isn't what they want. Most guys cheat after being hurt first or heartbroken." - Porter Jenkins, 24

18. "Me personally, I'm not a cheater, I was just raised to respect women,but I think why men cheat is because they get bored of their partner." - Kalo Sikalumbi, 15

19. "Well, first I must say that I'm glad it's 'some' and not all men! But, in my personal opinion lack of proper communication forces some men to cheat. Meaning it's some instances where the men are looking for something that they don't get at home, but I've learned every female that wants to be with a guy for a long term will do just about anything for them sexually, physically, emotionally and mentally, but if you never voice how you're feeling to your partner then she'll never know what it is you want from her which results in you (the guy) not being truly satisfied or looking for someone that "cares" elsewhere when you had it at home all along waiting to please you, but it was never communicated; leaving it up in the air for another girl who's 'easier' but does everything sexually without you having to say it to take over and usually the good girl loses, but she wanted to be bad for you the whole time, it just wasn't properly put out on the table so the thots win. Which isn't the girls fault at all, but it's slight conditioning on the guys end because we were taught to not talk, show emotions, feelings, etc. So even after the act is done, it's hard to make it better because again we were never taught to properly communicate to the opposite sex... in my opinion." - Nick Verses, 27

20. "I don't know.. I guess some people like new sh*t. I never cheated, so I can't just assume. And some guys think that if he not married he can cheat." - Anonymous, 21

Soo... yeah! That was exciting to hear the answer to that question from different guys. Ladies hear is you ANSWER! Every time one of ya girl friends hit you with the ugly Kim Kardashian cry and say, "Why do guys cheat," pull up this article and scroll through to tell her why!

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